After reading about an Innisfail school no longer willing to introduce their Grade 6 students to Question Period, I should have been shocked.
I was just disappointed.
When I'm with my children in a grocery store lineup, or with my students at a fast food joint on school trip, and I hear another adult choosing inappropriate language, I politely tap them on the shoulder and ask them to choose different language, gesturing to my students. Thankfully, they usually acquiesce.
However, for some strange reason, they didn't seem to notice the children in the public space. Have we become so ignorant as adults that we don't recognize the opportunities we have to impact on our youth?
Not that we can't recognize when youth are around us. We simply don't. We choose not to pay attention. Or at least, a select few of us don't choose to pay attention.
Our elected officials, theoretically the people who were so fine and upstanding that they managed to get thousands of Albertans to vote for them, don't.
What makes this truly downtroddenly expectoratingly disappointing is the fact that in Question Period, the guests have to be introduced.
MLAs were told the students were there. They even waved at them.
And then they turned around and told each other they "blow and suck" and called each other out to fight.
Ladies and gentlemen, this is verbal abuse and bullying. And we're letting it happen. Every time we vote some of these bullies into the legislature, we're letting this verbal abuse happen.
It's like second-hand smoke. You smoke, you damage your own body. But don't forget, you also damage the body of those who also inhale your putrid vapours.
You call people out, name-call, swear, or otherwise bully in the legislature, you damage your own relationships. But don't forget, there are a bunch of 10-year-olds in the gallery who also hear your colourful metaphors.
If you speak in Legislature, don't forget you're on public camera. If there's a school in the gallery, it becomes even more obvious that you're under scrutiny. And if you still choose to use inappropriate language and throw decorum out the window, remember this;
You've just become a child abuser.
I can't tap you on the shoulder politely to ask you to consider your surroundings. The Speaker in the Legislature has done that plenty enough, to no avail. I'm honestly surprised he's actually taking supplementals and questions away from members now to penalize them for poor behaviour. But I welcome it.
But I will have a very difficult time standing for an institution that abuses children. Even if it's second-hand abuse.
Duly elected Members of the Legislative Assembly of Alberta, this is what I am asking you to do; abide by Rule #2 of the Alberta Party's Guidelines for MLAs.
"Each MLA of the Alberta Party shall ... conduct themselves in a professional manner and with integrity, including within the legislature. Alberta Party MLAs shall conduct themselves in a manner that is respectful to other members of the legislature and shall not engage in disrespectful behaviour."
There was only one other rule that the Alberta Party listed before that one, and that rule has to do with engaging in direct in-person conversation with their constituents. Something that should be viewed as necessary, but also something you can't do effectively if you don't treat others with respect.
We need the "Honourable" members of our elected assembly to treat each other with respect and act with decorum. Then maybe, just maybe, our youth will believe in our "Honourable" adults the way I believe in our youth.